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Published on April 22, 2017 at 8:46 am

15 Little Things Your Boyfriend Wants But Might Never Ask For

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A lot of guys don’t talk about their feelings, but rest assured,everyone has things they want out of a relationship that they won’t tell you. Nowadays, it’s hard enough making a relationship last, let alone finding out what your partner really wants. Sometimes men are pretty clear about what they want. They don’t often play games, and if they don’t tell you what they want, it’s almost obvious by their actions. However, there are plenty of things that men want that they won’t talk about. Don’t stress though, because we’ve put together a list of the things most guys actually want from their girlfriends.
1. He wants to be someone you’re proud of.He wants you to brag to your friends about him,gush to your parents about him, take the numerous painstaking pictures that result in just one you can post, because he wants the world to know that he’s with you.
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2. Although society teaches women that they shouldn’t even leave the house without makeup, it’s really only for their own benefit. Most guys prefer the way a woman looks without makeup, and would rather you wear less as opposed to more. But he’s not going to say so, because he knows that women and makeup is a pretty touchy subject.
3. In his mind, you accepted him “as is” when you started dating him. So when you try to change him to suit your needs, it really gets on his nerves. He’s less likely to tell you that it bothers him than he is to just not do what you want him to do – which is frustrating for both of you. Get to know him for who he is, and accept and love him – or move on.
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4. He wants you to act like he’s the very first guy. Not the first guy you’ve been with or loved – you have a past and he respects you for that. It’s part of what makes you yourself. But he wants to feel like he is the first guy you’ve ever looked at in the specific way you look at him. Like he’s the first one who’s ever lit your world on fire. Like he’s the first guy you’ve ever seen a future with in the exact way you see a future with him, because you’re the first girl he’s ever felt like this about.
5. Nerdy guys who love playing video games secretly dream of sharing that hobby with their girl. He wants you to be his comrade, and wants to run through the woods shooting bad guys with you. If you play with him even every once in a while, it will bring you so much closer together as a couple. Plus, he needs a healer.
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6. He hates it when you nag him. He heard you the first time, but has elected not to do whatever it is that you asked him to do, for whatever reason that he doesn’t want to do it. Yes, it’s frustrating. No, there’s nothing you can do about it and nagging him is just going to drive him away.
7. Sports (or video games) are a guy’s way of winding down after a tough day or a tough week. If he wants to spend a Saturday watching the game with a few beers, it absolutely does not mean he loves you any less. He just needs some “him” time. So grab him another beer, kiss him on the cheek and go do your own thing for a while.
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8. He wants you to be patient with him. Your determination and your certainty and your confidence in the arena of love are what he adores about you most and yet sometimes he needs to take it slow. He wants you to know that to him, love forms quietly – in the moments when you laugh unexpectedly, on the mornings when your smile brightens the room, in the moments when you’re falling asleep and your breath steadies out and slows down – and he knows that you feel safe inside his arms.
9. He needs you to know that relationships aren’t something he dives into headfirst because he wants it all to matter in a real way. He wants to build something that’s going to last with you. He wants you to know that you shouldn’t worry about where the two of you stand because if he can swing it right, you’ll have the rest of your lives to keep on falling in love with each other.
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10. He doesn’t care if the drapes are rustic red or brick red, and he doesn’t care if the photo you’re hanging should go on this wall or that wall. He knows you’re going to do what you want anyways, so stop with the pretences and just enjoy yourself.